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@2 days ago with 20 notes
I just realized that being a fan is not about having fun, but about living your life for your idol.
You can’t call him oppa.
You can’t try to learn his language.
You can’t share his pics.
You can’t freak out about his body, otherwise you are just lusting over his body.
You can’t make assumptions about his personal life.
You can’t insinuate that your idol is gay, but you can’t insinuate that he is dating either.
You can’t dream about having him one day.
You can’t disagree with things he does.
You can’t have OTPs.
You can’t have personal opinion. You have to share fandom opinion.
You can’t talk about wrong things your idol does. What? He never does wrong things!
You have to love everybody around him, dogs, friends, managers, girlfriends, supposed girlfriends including.
You have to support him, no matter what he does.
You have to like his appearance no matter what he wears.
You have to like all music he does.
You have to spend all your money, time and energy in your idol.
You have to write in your own blog what other fans should do or not to do.
Oh, this is super important, you have to screencap when other fans do things differently of the rules above, and then post in your own blog and make comments about how this person is being a bad fan.
Well, I’m not sure if I’m ready to be a fan.